tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26790706931140182402024-03-12T16:22:18.538-07:00Camp MataponiCamp Mataponihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01009578686213992020noreply@blogger.comBlogger15125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2679070693114018240.post-1352345097716477402014-02-05T16:43:00.001-08:002014-02-05T16:43:09.929-08:00Why Camp friends are the BEST FRIENDS!<div class="MsoNormal">
Camp
friends are there for each other.</div>
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I mean this
seriously, and I don’t take saying this lightly, either. Other friends are
there for each other, too. “Being there” for your friends is a consequence of
friendship.</div>
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But the way
camp friends are hard wired to “be there for each other” stretches deeper than
the typified ideas of friendship in contemporary America. </div>
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Friendship might be defined as
putting someone else’s needs before your own, perhaps, but the sort of mentality
that embodies camp friendships doesn’t separate that friend’s needs from your
own. The friend’s needs, wishes, desires <i>are</i>
your own. Getting your friend a slice of pizza is as second nature as buying
your<i>self </i>a slice of pizza.</div>
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And if your best camp friend
happens to be vegan, then you order the cheese-less pizza. You don’t even think
about it, you just do it. Pizza is still pretty good without cheese.</div>
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Maybe it’s
because we lived together, because we became ourselves together. I always used
to think of it that way: that my camp friends knew me before I <i>was </i>me. I still think this is true to an
extent. They knew the rawest version of me, the twelve-year-old who hadn’t yet
discovered social pretense and the eight-year-old who only wanted to play
soccer or play with her action figures.</div>
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The people
who meet me today will never know these things about me. I’m too good at hiding
them now. </div>
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I do think, however, there’s
something to be said about knowing why someone is the way they are. It’s a
deeper kind of love, one that doesn’t place any restrictions on knowing
someone. I’ll never forget the first time I saw my bunkmate Rachel cry. We were
eight, and on an out-of-camp trip to Old Orchard Beach at the end of the
summer, a tradition that persists at Mataponi even today.</div>
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Rachel was crying because she lost
all her money, and seeing her cry broke my heart. Her green eyes were bulging
and tears were pouring out of them, and this was all from someone who was
usually so strong (as strong as you can be as an eight-year-old, but my
perception is obviously different now). </div>
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It broke my heart, it really did,
I’m sure that’s why I still have the memory with me, and I also remember that
we all shared our money with her, chipped in to buy her an ice cream cone and a
pickle on a stick. I’m sure it must not have been much, we probably had about
five dollars each, but it was enough to get her to stop crying. It was even
enough to get her to smile.</div>
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Knowing someone the way I know my
camp friends is wonderful because I’m able to love them not in spite of their
imperfections but because of them.</div>
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I do think
growing up together helps, especially growing up in as nurturing and vibrant an
environment as summer camp.</div>
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Case in
point – as I type this blog post I’m texting with two camp friends. One who was
my counselor for my three last summers as a camper, and one who was a camper
two years ahead of me. We were also counselors together and color war captains
together.</div>
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I just
found out today that I was picked for a new job, and these are the two people I
told because I knew that these two people wouldn’t just be happy for me, they’d
enter into that happiness and make it their own. The only other people who are
this happy as a result of my success are my parents and sister.</div>
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I talk to
my former counselor, Dorrie, pretty often even though we’re both much older
than we were during the time when she was my counselor. We still tell all the
same stories, I still beg her to tell me the hilarious stories of her time as a
camper, and even more fun is to recount the times we were at camp together.</div>
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Maybe
Dorrie is just a great storyteller. </div>
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This past
fall, one of my campers was a contestant on “The Voice,” a television show on
NBC.</div>
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Ten of my camp friends and I have a
“Camp” chat in GroupMe, an iPhone app, and we all relied on this chat while
watching Caroline on TV. We’d all be at it the whole time, messaging back and
forth breathlessly, saying things like, “Oh my God can you believe what Adam
just said about Caroline,” and, “WOW, she nailed it,” and the like.</div>
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Two of my friends, Amanda and Anna,
even created a Facebook group where Caroline’s fans could gather in a single
nexus. My Facebook newsfeed was overrun with statuses about Caroline, and I
posted in my sorority’s Facebook group with pleas for anyone, everyone, to vote
for Caroline. All my friends did the same in their respective Facebook groups.
Social media was abuzz with Mataponi girls proudly announcing that one of our
own rose to stardom. Don’t even get me started about what happened on Twitter.</div>
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The point is this: it wasn’t that
we were happy <i>for </i>Caroline, the point
is that our fates were so intricately entwined with Caroline’s that we were
able to be happy with her, and because of her, we love her and we love each
other.</div>
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We’re lifers.</div>
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A “lifer,” in camp vernacular,
basically means exactly what you think it means. Someone who dedicates a large
chunk of her life to her summer camp.</div>
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And by
“life,” I don’t just mean time. I mean emotion. I mean that when a “lifer,”
laughs deeply it touches a reservoir of good feelings that were, for the most
part, built by summer camp.</div>
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<span style="font-family: Cambria;">Confidence, for children, can be tenuous. Children need to
believe that they can. In many cases, they need to be convinced.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
<span style="font-family: Cambria;"></span><br />
<span style="font-family: Cambria;">Children need the warm rays of
positive reinforcement. <o:p></o:p></span><br />
<span style="font-family: Cambria;"></span><br />
<span style="font-family: Cambria;">And after spending fourteen years
at overnight camp in Maine, I can say with full certainty that there is no
better place to supply children with the encouragement they need to believe
that they can than overnight camp. <o:p></o:p></span><br />
<span style="font-family: Cambria;"></span><br />
<span style="font-family: Cambria;">That’s a fact. <o:p></o:p></span><br />
<span style="font-family: Cambria;"></span><br />
<span style="font-family: Cambria;">Where else can a child climb to the
top of a rock wall with nine supportive bunkmates and counselors cheering her
on? Where else can she practice her soccer kick, her backstroke, her ceramic
abilities, steering a sailboat, and improve her singing voice, all in one day?<o:p></o:p></span><br />
<span style="font-family: Cambria;"></span><br />
<span style="font-family: Cambria;">Well, nowhere else.<o:p></o:p></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Cambria;">Hopefully
their schools are a positive, nurturing environment where they’re motivated to
succeed. Hopefully. But the kind of astonishment a child will feel at her own
abilities after she’s completed a math problem is different than the accomplishment
she’ll feel when stands up on her water skis. I’m not trying to trivialize the
importance of doing math problems. But I can say from experience that the joy,
the sheer elusive joy on a child’s face when she stands up on her water skis
for the first time, is unlike any other.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Cambria;">There’s
only one thing that beats her smile when she stands up for the first time.
That’s the grin that breaks on her face when she hears her counselors and
bunkmates cheering from the boat.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Cambria;">And then
there’s color war. It usually occurs near the end of any session at overnight
camp. It doesn’t matter about the variations on the name. Some camps call it
Color Days, some camps call it Color Games. At Mataponi, where I was a camper
and a counselor for thirteen summers, we called it Jamboree. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Cambria;">It doesn’t
matter. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Cambria;">I’ve worked
at three summer camps, and at all three I’ve seen the same incredible sensation.
The camp is divided into two teams, and then those two teams spend a certain
amount of days competing against the other team in just about every camp
activity.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Cambria;">This
experience divides the camp, sure, but more than that, it glues them together.
It bands children from different bunks, who didn’t know each other before. It
makes them root for each other. They pat each other on the back, high five, hug
each other, scream their heads off on their teammate’s behalf. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Cambria;">It’s
amazing really.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Cambria;">What kind
of confidence could beat the way a child will feel when she, bracing to begin a
race, hears thirty other children screaming her name? I remember when I was
twelve at Mataponi I was selected to compete in the watermelon-eating contest.
And the entire red team was chanting my name. I wish I could bottle the way
that felt.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Cambria;">But I know
I haven’t felt it anywhere else but camp.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Cambria;">I can still
draw on that feeling, though, that invincible feeling of encouragement that I have
in my arsenal forever now, because of my time at overnight camp.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Cambria;">And what
better proof of this is there than Caroline Pennell? <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Cambria;">Caroline
Pennell was my camper at Mataponi for two summers. During that time, a band
called Julius C would come to Mataponi and perform. They would also give
campers the opportunity to come onstage with them, and sing to the camp while
they played their instruments.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Cambria;">This
experience is what gave Caroline Pennell the confidence to perform onstage in
front of thousands of people and celebrities, on national television, for <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">The Voice</i>, a television show that airs
Monday nights on NBC.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Cambria;">She’s an
amazing singer. Her voice is angelic. Check her out on iTunes if you don’t
believe me. But the point is that when it came time for her to sing for her
audition, she knew she could. Because she’d sang onstage before, at camp.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Cambria;">And now
she’s on Cee-Lo Green’s team.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Cambria;">If that’s
not success, I don’t know what is.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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very prevalent for me this evening for several reasons. The first is that I'm
leaving to drive to Maine tomorrow morning for another summer at camp and my
task for tonight will be packing. As a result, I was digging through some
drawers that are rarely opened in my family's guest bedroom, and I stumbled
upon a folder I must have used at camp when I was thirteen. Inside were letters
from my parents (and one from my Poppi) and a few unfinished letters that I
must never have gotten around to sending.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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I just had a laugh with my parents over one of them. I was thirteen and trying
to maneuver words to suit my advantage. I described the first day of camp as
"a frenzy of hugs and hello's" (which it truly is). I said I thought
the no cell phone rule was perturbed. Then I said, I hope I used perturbed
correctly. Perturbed means messed up right??<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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But the no cell phone rule isn't, as a matter of fact, perturbed (I know I'm
still not using it right), because if I had a cell phone and I'd called my
parents in 2004 instead of writing to them, I wouldn't have gotten to relive
that moment with them, just now in 2013 in all the clarity with which I wrote
it then.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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So for the past twenty minutes, I was hurled back to the summer of 2004. That's
what these words have the power to do. Reading my half-finished letters
enveloped me into my former state of mind, acted as a time capsule demolishing
the laws of time and space. That's what will happen when you write to your
child, or when you receive a letter from your child in the morning when you
walk down the driveway to get the newspaper. Think of how exciting that will
be.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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I'm an enthusiast for the written word, so you'll have to excuse me if I sound
a bit polarized. I won't lie to you and say your child won't get homesick, nor
that you won't miss him or her. Nor, of course, that letter-writing can
magically solve the problem that your child will miss you, and you will miss
your child.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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But it can come very close. The more time, detail, precision with which you
approach your letter writing, the more your child will, too. Reading someone
else's writing is literally the coziest one person's mind can get to another's.
I feel closer with my parents because of it. There's an issue sometimes, in
conversation, where people aren't really listening but are instead only waiting
for their chance to speak. This is obviously not the case with letter-writing,
as it's a solo narrative operation. If someone wants to interject into the
conversation, they have to write back.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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Also, here's a secret. Absence really does make the heart grow fonder. I can't
really measure how much my friends and peers who didn't go to camp care about
their parents, but I know that when I spent my summers away from my parents,
and I missed them a whole whole lot, I realized how extremely lucky I was to
have them, I charted and counted and measured all the things I loved about them
in their absence. I yearned to hug my mom and to play one-on-one basketball
with my dad. I couldn't wait to show them the amazing lake and the tile I'd
painted in arts and crafts. And after I had showed them, these things became so
much more special. I knew once my parents had visited me at camp, had found it
as beautiful as I did, and were as excited about my water colored tile as I
imagined they'd be, that I could be at home at camp.<br />
Could it be possible that that elated, elusive, ebullient moment when I spotted
my parents on visiting day and tore through the air into their arms in a
euphoric, reckless hug is one of the happiest moments of my life? Could I even
go so far as to state that this incredible moment when the two people I'd
missed so much had finally emerged into reality and reentered my life made all
the homesickness not only bearable, but worth it?<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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The night before visiting day is perfect. Every muscle and fiber in my body
would ache to spring into my parent's arms and every neuron in my brain was
focused on reimagining them. And then when I'd see them the next day, it'd
really be perfect. It really was.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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As a counselor, when one of my campers was homesick I would sit on their bed
and ask them to list for me all of the fun things that they did that day. We
are instructed to do this during pre camp, and it really does work. Sometimes,
during downtime, children forget all the fun they had in the day.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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The counselors that are hired to care for your children will really, truly care
about them. I promise this. I remember once when my bunk climbed Mount
Washington and I stood off to the side to let them all in front of me so I
could see them all, and be visually reassured at a constant rate that they were
climbing safely. That's how much I cared about them. All my friends cared about
their campers this much too. Sometimes, on our days off, we talk about how much
we miss our campers. Sometimes I would come back from time off to see that my
campers had left me notes on my bed.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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Camp is so special. That goes without saying. It's a cocoon of friendship,
love, camaraderie, and tradition. Everyone involved is lucky. Homesickness does
happen to be a negative amongst an array of positive benefits from camp. A
friend of mine once said that without darkness, it'd be impossible to see the
stars. This quote seems relevant right now.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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Sometimes, when I was younger, I would lie on the beach at camp and try to
imagine my house at home (the very house I'm in right now). I'd imagine myself
in turn walking through the front door, and walking through each of the rooms.
Then, the night when camp ended and I went home, I would traipse the house in a
marveled awe, this place still exists. My parents are real. Our house has a
scent. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<br />Camp Mataponihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01009578686213992020noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2679070693114018240.post-82021172723627465292013-06-07T12:29:00.001-07:002013-06-07T12:29:20.837-07:00Camp FAQ's<div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 10pt;">
<span style="color: black;"><span style="font-family: Calibri;">Frequently asked questions:<br /><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><br />1. How can I prepare my child for camp?<br /><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><br />It's normal to feel "pre-camp jitters" before camp starts - in fact, embrace it! Advise your camper to throw his or her nervous energy into picking out clothes to bring, packing, and pre-camp shopping (buying cool stationary will encourage letter-writing). With enough preparation, nerves will ebb into excitement. Get contact information for other children in your camper's bunk, encourage your camper to call one or two on the telephone and if a camper is in the area - get together for a pre-camp meal! This will make both campers feel more comfortable on the first day of camp.<br /><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><br />2. How many campers/counselors live in a cabin? <br /><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><br />About nine campers live in a cabin, with two counselors for older campers and three counselors for younger campers. <br /><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><br />3. Are campers divided into age groups?<br /><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><br />Yes. There are many times throughout the day when the whole camp is together, during meals, flag pole, etc., and some of the activities are multi-aged, but during most daily activities campers will be with children their own age. Nighttime activities vary, and special weekly nighttime activities bring the whole camp together for campfires and other camp traditions. Campers are with children their own age in the bunks and for most of their daytime activities.<br /><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><br />4. How will I be in touch with my child?<br /><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><br />Mail is delivered to each bunk daily (omitting Sundays and national holidays, because the post office is closed). Most camps require that campers send at least a certain number of letters home each week, as a camper I was required to write three letters per week. Campers are allowed one phone call per session, and are allowed to call home for their birthdays and family member's birthdays.<br /><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><br />5. How will my child get his/her medication while at camp?<br /><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><br />There are specific times each day when campers take medicine, usually before breakfast and dinner. If your child needs nighttime meds, his or her counselor will take them to the health center before bed. There are also specific times during the day, called "sick call," designated for campers who are feeling under the weather.<br /><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><br />6. How will my child handle homesickness?<br /><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><br />Usually homesickness occurs during downtime, before bed, or during other times of the day when they are not occupied or moving. The best cure for homesickness is fun, and counselors are trained during pre-camp to remind campers during down-time of all the fun they had earlier in the day, playing basketball or waterskiing or climbing the rock wall. If this doesn't work, there are other cures. When I was a camper a girl in my bunk mailed a tape recorder back and forth with her parents, so she could hear their voices. When I was saying goodbye to my parents as a camper, it always helped to remind myself that visiting day was a mere three weeks, or twenty-one days, away. That amount of time sound so small and truly does fly by. <br /><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><br />7. How are counselors selected and trained?<br /><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><br />Counselors are selected based on camp directors' impression of their "camp potential" and are required to spend a week of pre-camp, learning the ins and outs of each particular camp. Waterfront staff are required to be lifeguard certified, and ropes staff arrive at camp even a week earlier, to be sure that they're tested and trained in all safety precautions. Pre-camp contains extensive talks from directors, unit leaders, insurance personnel, and even professional actors who are trained for camp situations. During these exercises counselors are thrown into typical tricky situations and practice handling them with the actors.<br /><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><br />8. What will my child do everyday?<br /><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><br />Your child will most likely start his or her day with an all-camp lineup, an all-camp meal, and then an hour of cleanup. Then your child will be off to his or her morning activities, which could be anywhere from athletics to the ropes course to waterskiing, acting, or arts and crafts. Your child might even be traveling to another camp to participate in an inter-camp sporting match or perform an act of community service or put on a play. Then lunch time, usually an hour of rest hour, a time set aside for relaxing, free play and letter writing, and then afternoon activities (snack time occurs between two afternoon activities). After that, your child will head to his or her bunk for shower hour, and will then attend all-camp lineup and an all-camp meal. Then your camper will have an evening activity, which could be a fun and wacky activity, a scavenger hunt or a movie, or a social for older campers. After the evening activity your child will return to his or her bunk to unwind before lights out.<br /><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><br />9. How will my child be eating?<br /><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><br />As a child, the food at camp was delicious. We used to eat family-style meals, and then when I was thirteen my camp switched to buffet-style meals, which worked much better. At every lunch and dinner there is an extensive salad bar, with a multitude of options, plus delicious main meals. I can't speak more highly of the food at camp, and of course there are healthy options as well.<br /><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><br />10. What happens when it rains?<br /><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><br />Rainy days can be very fun at camp. Each division is split up to participate in a different activity, and can provide a much needed rest for campers and counselors alike from the constant running around that camp entails. Rainy day activities vary from board games in the dining hall, to an arts and crafts activity, to Zumba, indoor sports and tag games, and movies. If the rainy day occurs near the end of the summer, the drama director may seize this opportunity to stage the camp play.<br /><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><br />11. Are there out of camp trips?<br /><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><br />Yes. There are actually many attractions in Maine. Funtown Splashtown USA is a local amusement park, and everyone at my camp looks forward to this trip every summer. Our camp also journeys to Ogunquit for shopping and sightseeing, and the older campers have rite of passage trips such as white water rafting, climbing Mount Washington, and spending four days in Montreal. Counselors are instructed to be constantly counting their campers during these trips, and bunks are usually assigned a count-off to be sure that every camper is present at all times. Ask your camp director about the particular trips specific to your child's camp.<br /><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><br />12. What should my camper be sure to bring? <br /><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><br />Letter writing materials, envelopes, stamps and stationary are a must. If your camper enjoys playing soccer, be sure to send him or her with cleats and shin guards. If your camper loves baseball or softball, you could send him or her with his or her mitt, though the camp will probably have these available for all campers. Some camps have opportunities for rollerblading, so ask your camp director if your child's camp is one of them. You should probably send your child with some reading material, there is plenty of opportunity at camp to get summer reading books out of the way. Your child should also be sure to bring sunscreen and bug spray, as these are necessities of camp life. <br /><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><br />13. What should my camper not bring?<br /><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><br />Cell-phones are not allowed at camp. They demolish the camp environment, the purpose of which is to grant the children a deep breath from the constant stressors of Facebook and twitter and video iPods and computer games and to enjoy genuine human connection and the environment around them. Many camps don't allow video iPods either, or Nintendo DS's. You should contact your camp director to find out the rules for your particular camp. If your camp director asks you not to send your child with a specific piece of technology, please listen. I guarantee your child will benefit from unplugging from technology for the summer. You also don't need to worry about sending your child with band aids or other first-aid equipment, as your camp's health center will most likely be equipped with these. Also, your camper shouldn't bring soda or candy - it's typically not allowed in the bunk because of squirrels and raccoons, and I guarantee your child will have enough popsicles and brownies and ice cream and other camp goodies to keep his or her sweet tooth satisfied throughout the summer.</span></span></div>
Camp Mataponihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01009578686213992020noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2679070693114018240.post-48264658895417182013-04-29T13:58:00.003-07:002013-04-29T13:58:26.699-07:00Love Actually is <br />
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The movie “Love Actually” is one of my favorite movies because it illustrates a wonderful point: love actually is. Love exists despite anyone who tries to say otherwise.</div>
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There is, in fact, a corner of the earth where love is completely unscathed and is flourishing brighter than any other phenomenon. Love exists at summer camp in abundance, in every gesture, swimming in the lake and waterskiing tethered to the back of a jet boat. Love is in attendance at Saturday night campfires, resonating between the campers while they hold hands and grinning, scream the alma mater.</div>
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This brings me to another point. I am always startled by the Maine stars, and seeing them in the presence of so much love and brilliant a fire is breathtaking. The stars in Maine shine with more clarity than many campers have seen before and are thus the subject of much amazement, as they are unaffected by the light pollution that plagues many of the campers’ hometowns.</div>
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The movie “Love Actually” cites airport terminals as a place where love actually exists. But because of airport security these days, loved ones can no longer embrace their travelling friends and family members in the gate when they emerge from the plane. They to greet their loved ones at baggage claim. And everyone knows how stressful and congested baggage claim can be, and even though there are still delightful moments to witness, they typically only last between fifteen and thirty seconds.</div>
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Summer camp, however, well that’s two months, or about fifty days, bursting at the seams with moments that are drenched, literally soaking in love. The first day of camp at Mataponi is nothing short of magical. The giddy girls surge from their buses and drop their suitcases to fly into each other’s arms to begin the summer. Everyone is ecstatic to be back at camp and drenched in love once again, the whole day is absolutely euphoric. Even my first summer at camp, before I knew hardly anyone, I was aware that I had arrived somewhere special. I’d never seen anyone this excited about anything, not even on the first night of Hanukkah. The scene on the first day of camp at Mataponi is something to behold indeed and has brought tears to my eyes on more than one occasion.</div>
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And of course these two months are much longer in the minds of children for whom the months are still incalculably long, and even longer because everyone knows that one day at camp is equivalent to five days in the real world. Love isn’t just at Mataponi on the first day of camp. It’s there every day, in every hour and gesture at camp. No one is strangers, everyone is family and hugs are as common as hello’s at Mataponi. Campers can be seen holding hands on the way to meals, skipping and laughing and basking in the beauty of positive social interaction that so enhances the experience of life.</div>
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I once asked my dad if he cried at the end of his overnight camp (he went to Pine Forest in the Poconos). I spent my entire camp experience at Mataponi, an all girls’ camp, so I was unsure how boys handled the end of camp and especially my dad, who I had only seen cry once at my Bat Mitzvah. He admitted that yes, he did cry at the end of camp. He said that he and his best friend, nicknamed Bubba, would sneak away to the shower house on the last day of camp and cry so that no one could see them. The fact that my dad, someone I thought of as always stoic, found camp’s ending sacred enough to cry over made sense to me. I loved camp more than anything else in the world.</div>
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So next time you’re looking to witness love in action, drive to your city’s airport. But don’t stop there. Take a plane to Maine, step outside and breathe in the air from the pine trees and watch. Soon enough, you’ll understand.</div>
Camp Mataponihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01009578686213992020noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2679070693114018240.post-62456004603715563582013-03-25T16:58:00.002-07:002013-03-25T16:58:44.040-07:00Too busy playing tennis to tweet<br />
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Have you checked your Twitter, your Facebook, your email, your text messages, your Instagram yet today? And once you’ve done that, you need to do it at least fifteen more times within the hour. You wouldn’t want to miss a notification.</div>
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This is the reality of today’s technological landscape. In 2013, when you can have every person you might want to talk to literally at your fingertips, it’s easy to miss out on actual real-life interactions. I saw a statistic recently that said the average six-year-old spends about two hours a day looking at a screen. The rest of the statistics are almost too scary to share.</div>
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These social media tools are altering the way children today are learning. Children in their most formative years should be outside, using their imaginations, playing in the dirt. The virtual world may possess cool special effects but it absolutely pales in comparison to a child’s imagination. I know that when I was a child I lived in a castle, I maneuvered a tunnel on my elementary school’s playground to become a time machine, and my friend Daniel and I rescued Abraham Lincoln from assassination.</div>
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The statistics regarding children and media really got me thinking, and it occurred to me that they couldn’t possibly apply to me since I’d spent every summer at camp, with no access to technology whatsoever. Since I spent two months out of every summer windsurfing and kayaking, playing kickball and soccer, learning to climb a rock wall, there’s no way the petrifying statistic that today’s children will spend 40% of their lives staring at their screens could apply to me. Dan and Marcy (the owners of Mataponi) don’t allow video iPods, computers, cell phones, or any other sort of debilitating technology for that matter at camp. Campers are too busy playing tennis to tweet. In the place of the buzzing distractions and stress of the material world comes real, true, actual friendships. Instead of staring at a screen, the children are looking at the dew on the grass, or they’re watching the sun as it sets over Sebago lake at dusk. This is a joy unmatched by any sort of media, and especially not a computer screen.</div>
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If I wanted to contact my parents while I was at camp, I needed to write to them. This is a novel concept indeed for today’s children who may hardly ever pet pen to paper once they learn how to type on a computer. This was much easier for me than it was my sister, because I always loved to write, and always knew I was a writer. Campers at Mataponi are required to write three letters home a week, and this often a struggle for my sister. When it became Thursday or Friday and she still hadn’t met her quota, her Unit Leader would start to put on the pressure and she would send home extremely short letters, much to my parents’ entertainment, that would contain such phrases as “Hi mom and dad. Please send magazines. They made me write to you. Love, Stef.”</div>
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In fact, my parents have retained all of our letters in a cabinet in our kitchen having the ability to peruse through my childhood and relive my teenage musings on my summers is an indispensible pleasure.</div>
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My “Sub” summer at Mataponi, when I was fourteen, was far and away my best letter writing summer and certainly helped me hone my story telling abilities (which went well, since I’ve just been accepted to several MFA programs for creative writing). My dad, to this day, quotes a letter I wrote about a time that my two friends Sean, Casey, and I went canoeing during boating and our boat flipped and we had to swim our canoe to shore. He found it hilarious that I was aghast, our counselors were making us boat during boating (the nerve!), and “of course the flipping canoe flipped.”</div>
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This is, of course ironic to me now, as I sit in chilly March Pennsylvania weather. If I could canoe out on the beautiful sun sparkling Sebago lake right now in summer Maine air it would be an extreme improvement indeed.</div>
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My favorite, though, was the letter I wrote the night my division performed “Sing,” that summer of 2004. Sing is a competition at Mataponi between all of the age groups. Each age group writes and rehearses three songs and creates motions and dance moves to accompany them, and the thrill of screaming them in unison to the rest of the camp is unmatched by any thrill I’ve experienced since. We won that year, in 2004, and my letter encapsulates the wild joy that me and the forty other girls in my division felt that night. In my letter I said this, surely, is the reason girls come back to camp year after year, the reason everyone sobs at the last service and while they’re watching the year burn on the last night of camp. This is the reason the traditions are as sacred and as well cultivated as any religious practice at Mataponi. It’s all because of the shared community, the shared consciousness, the laughter and tears and inter-camp sports games and accomplishments and triumphs. We try together, at Mataponi, and that’s why when we succeed it’s all the more wonderful. When a girl falls down, her friends are there to pick her up. Sharing that night with forty girls who I loved with every ounce of emotion my fourteen-year-old heart could handle was an incalculable joy that I get to relive every time I read that letter.</div>
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And it’s the kind of experience that a fourteen-year-old girl who spends her entire summer on Facebook will never get to have.</div>
Camp Mataponihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01009578686213992020noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2679070693114018240.post-56593965417287938182013-02-11T12:29:00.003-08:002013-02-11T12:29:10.724-08:00Silliness is as valuable as Chocolate Chip Cookies!<br />
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to address a topic that I only briefly mentioned in my last blog. I believe I
worded it something like, “Mataponi is an environment in which silliness is as
valuable as chocolate chip cookies.” I’d like to shed light on this particular
comparison, which while entertaining at face value, doesn’t nearly give enough
information to accurately depict the phenomenon to which I’m referring. In
order to give proper credit where credit is due, I will use this blog entry to
provide at least some of the specifics that I’ve seen throughout my twelve
summers at Mataponi of both silliness and chocolate chip cookies.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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Snack occurs between fourth and fifth period – it’s a period after lunch and
two periods before the end of the day. This particular period has for my entire
duration at Mataponi, been the time that the two youngest divisions at camp
(the juniors and middie A’s) are at the waterfront. The juniors have boating
and middie A’s have swimming, and then they switch. Snack occurs right in
between this switch. On days that there are chocolate chip cookies for snack
(or chipwhiches, which is camp vernacular for two chocolate chip cookies with
ice cream in the middle) there are about a hundred young girls cheering and
screaming as they sprint up the hill from the waterfront to the dining hall in
their multicolored bathing suits to get their hands on the snack. The only way
to accurately describe it is to say that at camp, chipwhiches are received with
as much enthusiasm as the Beatles would have been in Times Square at the height
of their popularity. Because I’ve worked at athletics for the past four summers,
something similar can be witnessed from the athletics fields as the entire camp
sprints down the hill to the dining hall, shouting as they go to pass the word
about the heralded snack.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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Usually the word leaks sometime earlier in the week, whispered down the lane
from the girls who have cooking class to their bunkmates (“There’s going to be
cookies for snack on Wednesday!”) So that by the time snack comes on Wednesday
everyone is practically trembling with anticipation. Of course there’s a perpetually
stocked fruit bar which the ripest and most delicious fruit for those opting
for the healthy option, and even those campers with gluten or dairy allergies
are still swept into the hysteria and grinning right along with their peers
while they eat a popsicle or another suitable substitute. No one is left out of
the midday hype that is snack.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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So now – when I say that silliness is a trait regarded as highly as chocolate
chip cookies, it will be understood what I mean. Silliness is the best trait to
possibly have at Mataponi. Maybe when these girls are at school during the year
their affinity for spoken word poetry or science fact of the day or the song
they wrote about the maintenance men is of no interest to their peers but it’s
these girls who shine at camp – girls whose talents may be ignored or silenced
in school. I remember growing up there was a girl who had a hat full of
scientific facts and every morning she would pull one out and read it. This
became a bunk tradition and spread fast, while at first only her bunkmates
wanted to know the fact of the day, she would soon be stopped throughout her
day by just about everyone she passed who would want to know the fact of the
day. The same can be seen by the camper who practices impersonations and who
has learned the entire dance featured on episode 203 of Zoe 101 – these girls’
accomplishments are in no way confined to their bunk but are shared in the
consciousness of the entire camp.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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There are also several events throughout the summer to showcase the eccentric
talents of campers. Saturday night campfires feature an act segment that gives
campers a week to prepare their acts, so this is a time that the perfectly
cultivated bunk dance or song comes to light, and will sweep the camp for a
week until the next week when the next dance or song is performed. My bunk
still sings our McDonald’s song that our counselor taught us when we were
eight, and we’re all staff in our twenties now. Let me put it this way – each
girl’s “camp fame” is about as proportionate to their level of silliness and no
one is left out. Everyone is celebrated for something. In the real world,
laughter, eccentricity, silliness, these are traits to be silenced to give way
to demanding curriculums and homework and the drone of daily life. At Mataponi,
each camper is renowned, celebrated, and loved for being nothing other than
exactly who she is. And that is something that truly is as wonderful as
chocolate chip cookies.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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Camp Mataponihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01009578686213992020noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2679070693114018240.post-50573303811060067282013-02-08T07:25:00.002-08:002013-02-08T07:35:43.587-08:00Reflections on Camp Life<br />
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<span style="font-family: Calibri, sans-serif;"> Before I began to write this blog, I
visited Mainecampexperience.com and clicked on “The Maine Difference.” My
intention, of course, was to read about the allures of Maine from a perspective
other than my own. I found that when the site termed Maine summer camps as “The
best kept secret in the country,” they were remarkably accurate. What I didn’t
expect was to see a picture of the summer camp that I attended as the title
photo. The photo was not labeled, it did not say, “A picturesque view of the
shards of light as they glint of Lake Sebago at Camp Mataponi.” It was an
unlabeled photo that hurled me to this past summer, to the sun on my skin as I
was sweaty from a game of soccer and headed to lunch, and happened to catch my
breath as I glanced at the lake.</span><span style="color: #2a2a2a; font-family: "Calibri","sans-serif"; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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To describe camps in Maine as “America’s best kept secret,” is to say that
there’s nothing about camp in Maine that can equate with reality in American
society. In a contemporary age bogged with technology and exhausting everyday
demands, the happiness and simplicity procured by camps in Maine almost exceeds
comprehension. Almost. Camp has remained a flawless, untouched cache in society
that will fundamentally escalate the self esteem of thousands of children just
this summer, just in Maine. And these children will carry this empowerment,
love and the strength of their camp friendships out of their youth and apply it
to their entire lives. I know this firsthand, and not just from my eight
summers as a camper nor my four summers as a counselor but from my friends, my
campers, my parents and cousins who have all been exceptionally, miraculously
lucky to have been a part of the camp experience.</span><span style="color: #2a2a2a; font-family: "Calibri","sans-serif"; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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There are no brochures that accurately depict the way my dad’s face lights up,
even still, when he sees his camp friends. Like they’re all still teenagers and
sporting their previously unworn Converse All-stars for the end-of-summer
basketball game. Now that my campers are nearing adulthood, I see it in their
eyes as well – something that I know will never fade. That moment when they see
each other, right before the reckless abandon when they fly laughing into each
other’s arms, it’s a sort of euphoria that can only be felt and not described.
My camp friends understand me more completely, and with a completely different
vibrancy than any of my other friends possibly could. This is simply because my
camp friends grew up with me, played tug-of-war with me, laughed on the docks
until our stomachs hurt, and cried with me at the end of every summer while we
watched the silhouette of the year burn. We have reached the brink of hysteria
together and we’ve held hands and swayed while the sun set over the lake and we
sang the camp alma-mater.</span><span style="color: #2a2a2a; font-family: "Calibri","sans-serif"; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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No matter how long it’s been since we’ve seen each other, we always fall right
back into our roles, always pick up exactly where we left off. We always know
how we fit with each other, even if we don’t know how we fit with the rest of
the world. That’s why four of my friends flew into Philadelphia for a visit over
winter break, why camp friends across the country don’t hesitate to purchase a
plane ticket when they hear that something is wrong.</span><span style="color: #2a2a2a; font-family: "Calibri","sans-serif"; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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While my peers had internships making coffee and pressing buttons on copy
machines, I spent my summers teaching my campers to fold their clothes, to
score a layup, to believe in themselves. Where else on the planet can a group
of forty fourteen-year-olds write three songs and scream them to an audience of
five hundred? Where else can the camper that sculpts the best pot, that sings
with the most gusto in the camp musical, be heralded as highly as the one who
climbs to the top of the rock wall, who scores a goal in lacrosse, who tells
the funniest stories before bedtime? Any child would be unspeakably, incomprehensibly
fortunate to go to camp, where they will be loved, cherished and valued for
nothing other than being themselves. Silliness is regarded as a quality as
valuable as chocolate chip cookies, on the wonderful day they’re served for
snack. Any child would be lucky, infinitely fortunate, to attend camp. And then
they’ll be let in on “The best kept secret in the country,” and it’s a secret
that they’ll never, ever be able to forget.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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Camp Mataponihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01009578686213992020noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2679070693114018240.post-15322955891740556112012-06-26T16:42:00.000-07:002012-06-26T16:42:09.888-07:0010 for 2<br />
10 for2- Mantra for girls who spend their summers enmeshed in the experience that is Camp Mataponi. As the assistant tennis director making my way to “vacationland” from the summer sauna that is Houston, TX for the 1st time 5 years ago, I had no idea as to the depth this saying holds. Having spent 20 years educating and coaching I figured I knew all the angles to reaching kids and molding minds for a better tomorrow. And, hey, if this summer camp “gig” doesn’t float my boat (you must eat lobster- it’s a rite of passage when in Maine), I can tolerate anything for 8 weeks, right?<br />
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10 for 2- Gradually, the camp experience seems to lay the foundation for what is good and right in life- it’s finding yourself once again walking the path leading to your bunk; it’s the exhilaration of representing, and for me, coaching the green and white @inter-camps; and it’s the bonding of camp sisters and camp staff that establishes ties that cross oceans and decades of time.<br />
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10 for 2- Reference points for the “real” world have points of origin that stem from camp life: I look to see the weather for Portland, ME before my own; I see cool T-shirt graphics and think, hey, that would be a cool staff-shirt design; and all other ice cream shops are simply pretenders!<br />
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10 for 2- does it stir something in you?<br />
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By Chip Downey</div>Camp Mataponihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01009578686213992020noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2679070693114018240.post-43374208598379682252012-06-26T16:38:00.002-07:002012-06-26T16:38:31.124-07:00Mataponi is better than Hogwarts<br />
My first summer at Camp Mataponi, I showed up quaking in my Sketchers, clutching my stuffed moose, and completely unprepared for what was soon to come. I watched my cousin race up to her friends from last summer before I flew down the steep Junior Hill and into Bunk 4, where I promptly disappeared into my book until dinnertime. Thus, the beginning of my ten summers at Camp Mataponi anti-climactically began.<br />
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At age 9, I had already deeply immersed myself in the world of Harry Potter. As soon as I noticed the brooms in my bunk, I eagerly grabbed one and raced outside to mime a game of Quidditch. While my bunkmates were trading stationary and playing cards, I ran outside with my broom every day at rest hour, alone. But one day, as I pretended I was catching the Golden Snitch, I noticed that I was not alone. Kim, one of my bunkmates, had followed me outside. She mounted her own broom, locked eyes with me, and began to follow my pantomime. Silently, we continued our ride.<br />
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At Camp Mataponi, I learned many things, but the most important was the lesson that Kim taught me during my first summer. There is no shame in being whoever you truly are, and there are people that will embrace you for just that. Honestly, ten years later, I haven’t changed too much from that girl who was convinced the brooms in her bunk flew. But I found friends that accepted me for my quirks, and loved me anyway. I have seen girls with completely different interests, tastes in clothes, and personalities, grow up together and stay best friends through their camp experience and further. I have seen quiet girls morph into extroverts, and loud, outspoken girls fall instantly silent when enraptured in a friend’s story. For campers and counselors alike, Mataponi has become a haven to foster friendships and build inner confidence. And although I never did get to go to Hogwarts, I soon realized I was a part of a place much more magical. Mataponi brings out the best in each individual, and becomes a place that each camper and counselor invariably will call home.<br />
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By Ilana "Weenies" Wolpert<br />
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Attention all campers and staff at Mataponi for the summer of 2012:</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">When you packed for the summer, did you fill your trunks with tennis shoes, tank tops and toenail polish? Did you shove stuffed animals, stationary and sunscreen into your suitcase? Did you overload your backpack with beach towels, bikinis and bug spray? </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Well, if you did, great job on following directions. You will definitely use all of those items throughout the course of the summer. The packing list you got is a great guide to all the “basic stuff” you need to bring in order to make your time at camp for pleasant and comfortable.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">But did you know that there’s ANOTHER packing list? An unofficial, unspoken of, yet very necessary list of items you MUST bring to Camp Mataponi!</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">It’s time to bring this list out from under the bunk bed and out into the open. Sure, you need to bring sweatshirts, shorts and sports equipment. You need a sleeping bag, socks and stamps. However, without these other items, you may miss out on some of the most memorable moments of camp. So, if you failed to bring any of the items on the list below, get ready to write a letter home, because you’ll be missing out if you can’t dress the part. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><u><b>A tutu.</b></u> You might think this frilly, lacy skirt is only for ballerinas, but that is not true here at camp. You need not be a dancer to wear one of these. In fact, a tutu not only makes a great skirt that can be worn over leggings or spandex shorts, but it can also double as a lovely wig. Furthermore, this is the preferred dress code of many counselors at socials.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><b><u>Anything neon.</u></b> Whoever said our camp colors were green and white was sadly misinformed. Neon anything, be it a tank or tennis shoes, is the way to go. The brighter, the better.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><b><u>A wacky wig.</u></b> Your natural hair is lovely, but nothing says “theme dinner” quite like a bright wig with long, tousled locks.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><b><u>Ridiculous socks.</u></b> Yes, socks are on the packing list already. But what the list should specify is that socks should NOT be white. Colorful, patterned socks of various lengths are what is required. You need tall ones for playing posse and to wear with rain boots. Short ones can be worn with flip flops for a touch of personal style and flair. And nothing says “I’m hiking Mt. Washington” like bright knee high socks popping out of dull brown hiking boots.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><b><u>Nike running shorts.</u></b> This is a big one. Even if the only running you do at camp is from lineup to the dining hall, these shorts are a definite part of the unofficial Camp Mataponi uniform. You know the one’s I’m talking about: the Nike Tempo track shorts are the round-legged shorts with the colorful accents on the side. This season, our friends at Nike have given the world an array of colors and patterns to choose from, and paired with a Hanes V-neck, you’ve got the most comfortable outfit in the world. Throw on a pair of Havianas and now you’re really cooking. Of course, if you don’t have any Nikes, you can still be stylin’ in a pair of Soffe shorts. Just be sure to roll them up at least 12 times. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><b><u>Solid color clothing.</u></b> This is really something that requires advance planning. Whether it be during Olympics, Jamboree, Sing, Birthday Ball or Girlie Death Hockey, there will come a time at camp-several in fact-when you will need to dress yourself from head to toe in one color. Most people have red, white and blue clothing all prepared for the summer, but you never know when you might need to don all pink, yellow or black for some activity. By the way, it should also be noted, that here at camp the color pink is an acceptable substitute for red;, additionally , green is an acceptable swap for blue, as is purple.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">So there you have it: the pacing list that wasn’t in any mailing. Look around camp, and I’ll think you see that veteran campers and staffers alike have adopted this list and passed it on throughout the years. All of these wacky items are part of what makes Mataponi such a unique place to live and work for seven weeks of the year!</span><br />
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<br /></div>Camp Mataponihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01009578686213992020noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2679070693114018240.post-43374703685782193012012-03-07T10:52:00.001-08:002012-03-07T10:54:39.247-08:00Summer Camps Make Kids ResilientAn article in "Psychology Today" about how Summer Camps make children more resilient to life stress.<br />
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<a href="http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/nurturing-resilience/201202/summer-camps-make-kids-resilient">http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/nurturing-resilience/201202/summer-camps-make-kids-resilient</a>Camp Mataponihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01009578686213992020noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2679070693114018240.post-87418583205802520322010-11-10T12:19:00.000-08:002010-11-10T12:19:25.266-08:00Missing 04055!Just this morning I was looking through GQ magazine (at the dentist office) and came across an article about the coolest small cities in America. The secont city listed is Portland, Maine! In the article it talked about one of my favorite restaurants, Fore Street. Why one of my favorites? Lets see; the fresh seasonal food, the great atmosphere, well everything. In my opinion a must visit if you are ever in Maine. <br />
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I think Fore Street, and Portland itself, embody so many of the things I love about Camp Mataponi. There's always something new to learn about...something fun to try. Fifteen years ago I rode a horse for the the first time at camp. I learned how to belay on the ropes course. I learned how to sail on Sebago Lake. Most important, I learned what it felt like to miss a place as much as a person. Which I know many of you have all learned to feel.<br />
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So as I tick along, working towards the summer of 2011, I continue to think about what camp has already taught me and what new adventures lie ahead in the 04055!<br />
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ToddCamp Mataponihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01009578686213992020noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2679070693114018240.post-34402074500301089732010-10-27T07:43:00.000-07:002010-10-27T07:43:36.410-07:00Wow. We are now blogging!Hello to all of our Camp Mataponi family!<br />
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We have decided to offer this blog as yet another way to get your Mataponi news. We will be blogging through out the year to keep you up to date on everything Mataponi. Some posts will be informative and some will be just for fun.<br />
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So check in and keep in touch. Camp Mataponihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01009578686213992020noreply@blogger.com0